What does it feel like to be isolated from the rest of everyone? To not be able to pick up on the social norms at a normal pace? It's difficult to constantly be trying to make a concious effort to understand situations and people. Adapting to what is required and what is demanded from you in society can be quite a challenge, especially when you're an INTJ.

In my case for example, I find it extremely difficult to focus my attention on another person's feelings or intentions when I'm pondering over a particular theory, thought or idea. I just can't be bothered, well maybe difficult isn't the right word, more like it's incredibly taxing and demanding? I can't deal with both at the same time.